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Thursday, 2 April 2015

Liaisoning with the difficult

When you speak or act, a connection between your inner and outer faculties is established. This connection is like a switch, that flips itself at the "force" of determination, logic, instinct or plain whim. This force is at times a foster child, nurtured by those who cares or focus on it, and not necessarily the main actor who is reason behind this child's birth.

A very funny example - you are walking to an important meeting and suddenly a crow flies over you and shoots a stigmatic load on your clothes. You may not be the reason this crow flies there, but the conscious (inner faculty) you carry that connects to your absurdity (outer faculty)  in that meeting should clarify what I mean. That being said, I am equally convinced about various such connects where this force affects the perpetrator too. Haven't your heard that they are killing crows? Now, that's not funny.

Dynamics of this flipping switch is not as complex as it sounds. Just that the control of this switch is at times beyond we humans' power, we are awed and then thawed when we realize later to switch being flipped. It becomes just an action and reaction sequence, where our senses are mere passive participants. Also, logic always comes next to instincts and hence it is at times late; obviously, sulking and feeling remorse are also sequential reactions and can be controlled if one really wishes to.

So, it is all about controlling the force that connects these inner and outer faculties. It is not that easy as the inertia it carries is very strong and is made of years of experience and usage style. As the logical mind pushes us towards the easier route which wanes our taming power, we just end up regretting on an outcome. To be a tamer of such a powerful force is a child's play if one harbours a child-like attitude...if you understand what I mean.

4 comments:

  1. That was an interesting read. Thanks for sharing. :)

    As you correctly said, if we control our reactions to any situation in life, it will a lot easier to adjust as per the environment. Something that everyone needs to cultivate.

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    1. Thanks for liking it Eloquent Mind. It is lot easier to be saying these days than doing and I admit it myself. Controlling emotions is like stopping a Volcanic eruption, and only dormancy can do that in metaphorical sense ;)

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  2. Controlling emotions while required is not always doable. Besides sometimes it makes sense to vent out the pent up emotions.

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    1. Yes...and it's like a double edge sword

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